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wewindondowntheroad

That post about 30 year old coming of age stories?

I’ve been thinking about it all morning. What would the plot points be for that? What makes a 30 year old coming of age story?

Old folks sound off in the comments

biglawbear

This article about a woman who went on a life changing lesbian cruise.

Rather than beginnings like teenage coming of age stories, a 30's coming of age is about change.

The thing about turning 30 is that you know yourself better, and you are usually just starting to have the means to seek what you want. You have enough life experience to know what you like and don't like. You may have a little disposable income, freedom from family, or finally be treating something like depression.

It isn't like being a teenager where the coming of age is new experiences; it's coming of age in knowing what you want and changing your circumstances. You look around and think, "I want and deserve better than this, and I can do it," and you make the change.

Getting a new job. Going back to school. Dating someone new. Moving somewhere else. Going on a long trip. Trying a new hobby. Or even just dressing differently! There's so many ways this coming of age can occur.

But there are layers to this. Unlike a teenage growing up story where you're writing on a blank slate, a 30's coming of age is turning the page. You might have to do something painful. Quit your job. Break up with someone. Say goodbye to your hometown. There's change. And with that, comes apprehension for the future and grief over the past, but you work through that anyway to seek something better for yourself.

To quote the article above, one of my favorite quotes of all time: "There’s something so deliriously pleasurable in the idea of trusting myself enough to know exactly what I want.”

Oh and by the way. This doesn't just have to be the plot of a book or fic. This can be your life, too. You can always do better.

Getting older isn't bad. Turning 30 isn't the end of your life. Things can be better once you know yourself more and know what you want. Embrace it.

kattahj

When I was thirty I got my first steady full-time job (after years working part-time and substitute) and moved to a new town 40 km from my old one, so that felt like a coming of age!

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chongoblog
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my favorite calvin and hobbes comic is the one where his dad just rolls up and casually destroys his entire night by pointing out some neat trivia about record players

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phoenixavalon

@nightcrawler-fan

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#his expression in the last panel is black comic gold #the best part is that his dad was trying to be nice

are you sure. are you sure calvin’s dad is not a seasoned elder trickster. are you sure this isn’t the exact outcome he was hoping for

backdropkid

ok but that’s actually canon

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raeloganthesonic06fangirl

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You forgot this one

thebibliosphere

*looks pointedly at ETD*

lyricwritesprose

Calvin’s dad is basically a Calvin who has learned that he can’t get away with running outside naked or throwing snowballs at neighborhood girls, but he is still precisely the same little shit under the thin veneer of civilization.

davidmann95

@lyricwritesprose Calvin and Hobbes has been one of my favorite things since I could read and Calvin’s dad one of my favorite characters, but that last comment blew my mind wide open. Of course that’s what he is. Of course.

roach-works

one of the most subtly delightful things about calvin and hobbes is that you can SEE that calvin is his parents’ kid: his dad is so playful and imaginative, and his mom has a heck of a temper and a good sense of what’s right and wrong. calvin is a smart, passionate, imaginative kid who gets really upset when he thinks things are stupid or unfair. he drives his parents crazy sometimes because he’s a kid. but they were probably a lot like calvin themselves, when they were little. 

bird-says-be-gay-do-crimes

My favorite goddamn comic

atqh16

Also didn’t Calvin make a comment once that apparently his grandma said his mother was just as much of a troublemaker as he is

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savedgame

This is my best friends art please source it :)

ANXIETY BE DAMNED MY BOCCHI CAN WORK A GRILL pic.twitter.com/O17YO10EYo  — Cola 🍓❄️ (@c01a_) December 14, 2022ALT
gsirvitor

I couldn't source it, I stole from a discord that stole it from another discord, that stole it from ifunny, that stole it from 9gag, that stole it from reddit, that stole it from Twitter.

forklift-certified-catgirl

Damn it's almost like you could just reverse image search or somethin ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

gsirvitor

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forklift-certified-catgirl

Damn if you can't find the source then maybe you just, idk, DON'T POST IT CAUSE IT'S NOT YOURS??? it's really an easy solution to an easy problem. Also, just an FYI, there's also a fucking watermark that could have got you there too. No excuses for art theft ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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maki2232

Reverse image search DOES show the source! Along with with other places where it was reposted

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This guy just didn't give a shit about looking for the source

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